The August Mayfield Diaries
I Love Him But I Don't 'Love Him, Love Him'!
A friend of mine, let's call her Christine is getting married next February but she said she's not in love with her fiancé. She said it's more of a case that they really get along like two best friends. Christine says that her and her fiancé make a really good team and work together for the greater good of their future. They both sing from the same hymn sheet of life, they hardly ever disagree; they both want the same kind of life-style and have the same family values and background. So as far as she's concerned, they're a perfect match.
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A friend of mine, let's call her Christine is getting married next February but she said she's not in love with her fiancé. She said it's more of a case that they really get along like two best friends. Christine says that her and her fiancé make a really good team and work together for the greater good of their future. They both sing from the same hymn sheet of life, they hardly ever disagree; they both want the same kind of life-style and have the same family values and background. So as far as she's concerned, they're a perfect match.Read more ...
posted by August Mayfield at
23:51
4 Comments:
When a woman gets to a certain age, she starts to weigh up whether a man is a good man. It's stupid to love a bastard if he's not a good man - even if your totally in love. Might as well settle for an OK man who's good. I sound like I'm talkin shite right??
No, you are talking sense.
I personally have thrown in the towel and taken an early bath where men are concerned.
Being in Love is way overrated, maybe it works for some people....but sadly, I just don't get it.
Rose
Ladies, Ladies!! Love does exist. I'm talking about Real Love not settle for a jackass love. It's a little bit like winning the jackpot but you have to be in it to win it. I've had my heart broken, I've settled for the bad guy, I've been left holding the baby, the father of my children turned out to be a psycho, I then turned into a psycho and then I changed my way of thinking. I met the most wonderful man last September and I've been happy with him ever since. But luckily, I found my happiness before he found me. I almost gave up. But something told me to get on with my life but to still be hopeful. He's nothing like I imagined my man to be. He's the opposite of my normal "type". Maybe that's why we work, but don't settle AND DON'T GIVE UP. Mr OK is never an option. You might as well go back packing and sight seeing until you find yoursef instead of lumping yourself with someone who irritates you and doesn't feel right.
Donna
Find me a man whose not going to hurt me, make me cry & tell the truth and I'd give it a try again, but just like you Rose, I'd rather do something like read a book or watch TV because a heart takes a hell of a long time to mend. Men can be really cruel.
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