Monday, 7 September 2009

Father Knows Best

For one reason or another, I've allowed life to zap me of my positivity and energy recently. It's all been quite subtle. But I've noticed that I've been looking through the lense of a woman who seems to be losing the ability to stay on top of things and allowing every day life to get me down.

I guess there's been times when I've been punching above my weight. Taking on board too many projects and stressing out over unnecessary details. I've also not asked for help when I need help and I know help's out there but I've just been 'too proud to beg'. I've been giving advice and not taking any and worst still not taking any of my own advice. What a silly mare! Oh and I've been calling myself derogatory names like 'silly mare'

NOT GOOD.

So this afternoon, I decided to cry on the shoulder of my dad. He's the kind of man who hasn't got much time for self-pity and foolishness and he wasted no time getting to the point and he simply said:

Even if things don't turn out the way you expected, don't get depressed or give up on striving for what you really want from life. If you continue to move forward using all the excellent tools you already have, you'll get the life you deserve in the end.

Well said dad!

5 Comments:

Blogger vivorse9 said...

You're not the only one August; I've been getting out of the wrong side of the bed for a while now....here's to pulling our collective socks up!

Rose

7 September 2009 11:27  
Blogger August Mayfield said...

I'm gonna try Rose, I'm gonna try!

August

7 September 2009 16:22  
Anonymous Henry Poole said...

My dad's my best critic. He says it like it is.

Henry - North London

10 September 2009 01:13  
Anonymous Lukie said...

In the words of Speech DeBelle, I MUST LOVE MY DAD BECAUSE I HATE HIM SO MUCH. I haven't got a dad, but if I did, I'd love for him to give me words of advice. It shouldn't be luck to have a dad, it's a given. But I still think people with a good father are lucky. Also, I take on board your dad's advice, at least someone's dad makes sense and has meaning.

Lukie

14 September 2009 10:19  
Blogger August Mayfield said...

Speech DeBelle: http://www.speechdebelle.com/

14 September 2009 11:40  

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